Comunication

 What is the importance of communication in a relationship? how can it help the family to have better results in daily life? Well, think that communication is just how everything starts and how everything holds together in a relationship, when there is a lack of communication that's when the problems begin to come without a solution, communication can result in disagreement most of the time, but there is not another way to solving problems with family or partner than communication.

Now, there are a lot of types of communication and it can happen in a lot of different ways to let a message be known by someone else, since the beginning of the world any kind of beings have been able to express what they want or need in several ways, animal communicate to each other in different ways to let the others of the same species know what they are thinking, and now that I come to think of it we all can even let other species know what we are thinking, by the way, we express ourselves, verbally, emotionally and just expressing ourselves signs, gestures, words, tones, and many other ways.

When it comes to us people, we mainly communicate through words, tones, and gestures with each other. and yeah, it will sound crazy but, words are the most used but yet the worse way to convey a message. What I want to say is that words won't always express feelings, but tones and gestures will, words won't always express sincerity, but tones, and gestures will. That brings us to guess what would be the way best to communicate with the people that we love? It is a question to answer especially because I am probably not the best at giving marriage or couple councils, but one thing I know is honesty and sincerity are always essential and the right thing to do, say and believe.

Truth isn't always comfortable, and appreciating it yet is still the way to give solutions to challenges and problems. There are always ways to say the truth and different points of view in kind ways that will definitely make a difference, I did some research these last week and I found some really interesting and useful information. we will call these techniques "the three secrets of communication" and I know that after you read them you will tell yourself  "Oh, this makes sense".

The first secret is to make your emotions known, you would always like to start saying your point of view or your truth by saying "I feel" we all have the right to have our own opinion on everything, so it will sound better than saying you... (like pointing to someone).

The second secret is to be empathetic, When a disagreement comes it is really useful to try to think as the other person is thinking, this could change your thoughts or not, but it will definitely help you to understand what someone else is thinking in a better way.

The third secret is to be assertive, Think logically think for a common benefit, and this always requires you to understand reasons, I personally recommend to council with God too.

We all decided to come to this earth and we all knew what was going to happen, I am sure that the lord can give us the strength to be better and to accomplish all we deserve, he has given his son so that we can follow his plan and do all the things that The lord our God has commanded us to do. God loves you and he wants you to be happy, so follow him.

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