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The Raising Of A Family

 A couple of weeks ago I was watching a video concerning the wonderful gift of life, in the video, the steps of pregnancy and the moment of birth are shown. The narrator of the video mentioned something that got me thinking and pondering about the amazing job that mothers do, he said "Every time a child is born a mother is born as well." When thought of this metaphor I realized that my mom learned how to be a mother with me. For children parents are the ones who teach us how to live but, who thought our parents how to teach us? We don't often ask that to ourselves, next time you have the chance to talk to your parents ask them, who taught you how to teach me? As we know, parents didn't know how to teach perfectly the moment they became parents, I have been learning lately some really useful tools People can use to improve their teaching skills. It is helpful to know that not every family uses the same way of teaching and correcting children, and also every parent need

The responsibility of providing

 There are several responsibilities that come with marriage and even though we always think that we need to love mainly there are numerous duties that come with starting a family. One of those duties is to provide the necessities to maintain a family, which often requires keeping children and a spouse that stays at home mainly and it takes effort and indeed some work. This issue is normally bigger when a family is just starting to grow when the couple begins is usually when they start with almost none of the resources. One thing I love about my Dad is that he will always be willing to do whatever it takes to provide enough for his family. I remember that when I was 13 years old I remember that his business was not going good, there were a lot of economical issues in my family and my parents had just had their fifth child, and things weren't looking as good for both of my parents. At that time I remember clearly that he started to try things he had never done before, one of those th

Comunication

 What is the importance of communication in a relationship? how can it help the family to have better results in daily life? Well, think that communication is just how everything starts and how everything holds together in a relationship, when there is a lack of communication that's when the problems begin to come without a solution, communication can result in disagreement most of the time, but there is not another way to solving problems with family or partner than communication. Now, there are a lot of types of communication and it can happen in a lot of different ways to let a message be known by someone else, since the beginning of the world any kind of beings have been able to express what they want or need in several ways, animal communicate to each other in different ways to let the others of the same species know what they are thinking, and now that I come to think of it we all can even let other species know what we are thinking, by the way, we express ourselves, verbally

How can stress affect a relationship

There are always several problems that can affect a relationship. relationships are definitely not perfect, there are always going to be several reasons why to be stressed and disappointed, now being in a relationship can be complicated due to the lack of control we have over our partners or people that surround us on a daily basis compared to when one is single. This lack of control for a third party can affect everything that happens within the family, a quick example of this is if the husband simply doesn't want to work or doesn't provide the necessities for the family, the family is the one that will suffer the consequences. Just as described in the last sentence there are numerous problems that can occur in the family that will definitely cause stress, and anxiety, and will make a couple take hard decisions that can conclude in not desired results or can also cause a good impact on the family. Events that cause stress are the ones that unify families or separate them. Nume

only between the binds of lawfuly marriage

There are several reasons dating doesn't work in preparation for marriage, one of the most common ones is the couple doing things only married people do, today I would like to speak about sex before marriage and its consequences, the purpose of sex, and the way that sex can help a relationship between a married couple. These days it is really common for couples to have sex before the binds of marriage, this fact causes fewer people to want to get married, and it causes the ones that participate in these to stop believing in marriage, sex before marriage has only caused couples to lose respect for each other. Sex before marriage creates emotional attachments that are difficult to stop, emotional attachments that can only be felt by a lawly married couple. This causes couples to stop believing in what really matters "Love". When a couple focuses on sex rather than love the relationship only has the interest in satisfying each other's physical needs of sex leaving behind

What do I want my marriage to be like?

What do I want my marriage to be like? It's a question I have never done to myself before, but it is a question every young single adult who desires to get married should always ask themselves. What would some of the consequences be if we don't ask ourselves this question before marriage? This last week I was studying a little more concerning the consequences of not asking ourselves this question before marriage, and there is also that we need to talk about this topic with our girlfriend or boyfriend before the proposal. When we avoid this topic while dating there is a higher chance that we do not agree with our partner on the kind of relationship we want to have after marriage. Some of the problems that a couple may face during matrimony can only be solved by an agreement between the partner, and in a relationship, there are always going to be two different points of view, that is the importance of marrying someone that agrees, and strives to understand what we are thinking so

Dating

I am not the most experienced guy concerning dating in fact I have only had a girlfriend in my whole life, I have never dated anybody else. I have knowledge that here in the United States people call going on dates when two people hang out together with the purpose of getting to know each other, and they call dating when they are both committed to each other like boyfriend and girlfriend, that may be used differently in Guatemala the country I am from.  Dating, even though it has been created with the purpose of getting to know each other it has been used in many different ways, especially in this last year. Often times my parents talk to me about how dating used to be in the 1990s, my own opinion concerning dating at that time is that it used to be more healthy, not in the manner of physical health but psychological health, couples used to see each other often, Marriage was a goal to think about together which made marriages to happen with the intention to create a family. As time has